Five Lectures: Systemic Philosophy or the Fundamentals of the Constellation Method
30.00€ inc. VAT
The lecture course was recorded and now you can watch the Zoom lectures independently. Through the lectures, you can explore intriguing topics that provide insights into how relationships form, what influences them, and how to start 'reading' them differently.
When you can see and grasp the system, a deeper dimension of understanding opens up. Awareness grows, enabling you to make more suitable choices for yourself, as the hidden becomes more visible than ever before.
There are a total of 5 lectures on different topics. The lectures can be purchased individually, based on interest, or all together at once.
The field is everywhere, not just in constellation workshops, groups, or rooms. We live within it and relate to everyone and everything in the same ways our ancestors did. We live according to the laws of life, whether we want to or not. If we think that others do not influence us, we are mistaken. There are plenty of examples of how we pick up a colleague's bad mood or contagious laughter, think about a friend and they call the next moment, or think of asking something from a partner and they voice the same question. It is an illusion to think we are not influenced when we keep our distance, try to forget, or believe that it is in the past. But that is precisely why we become bound; it makes us act, choose, and react in ways that are not true to ourselves. A negative bond is restrictive. If we learn to notice these binding elements, we can take action and make changes that move us toward freer choices. We are always connected, the question is – do we support or hinder this connection?
Themes
1. Lecture – Key concepts and meanings – constellation, field of knowledge, integration, loyalty, healing sentences (where they come from and how they work), mirror neurons. What do we have in common with animals' compass? What the constellator does and does not do – myths and reality. The impact of constellation work – how significant, when, for whom. Representation – how it works, what happens, is it possible to get "stuck" in the representation – myths and reality.
2. Lecture – Primary, secondary, adopted, and meta-feelings. The 6 important sequential stages of the process of change. About forgiveness – the difference between asking and apologizing (practice). Suffering – for what purpose?
3. Lecture – Südametunnistus. Paarisuhted ja mis neid mõjutab – polaarsused, kõrvalsuhte mõju, saladused, mitte tunnistatud laps, eelmised suhted ja valusad lahkuminekud, ülekanded, partneris vanema otsimise tundemärgid ja selle mõju suhtele. Laste kaotuste mõju suhetele.
4.loeng – Children's "magical" thinking. Child's love. Parentification. Caught between parents. Stages of human development – chart, explanations, and characteristics.
5. Lecture How life organizes itself through 3 laws. Symptoms, diseases, and conditions – their roles, hints, and possible systemic causes of the most common diseases (NB! Context must always be taken into account. I highlight some of the most frequently observed correlations. It must be considered that these may still vary for each individual).
NB! Each case must be handled individually and it is recommended to collaborate with doctors. Constellation does not cure or diagnose but looks at systemic connections that triggered the development of the disease.
In constellations, the aim is not to find culprits or wrongdoers but to identify triggering events and those who were involved. This is to honor and give them a respectful place in the system to which they belong, as it is a part of history. Nothing that has been can be excluded. It can be acknowledged and recognized, allowing the system to calm down.
